Tag Archives: love

Pretty Privilege: The lies that you were told. Part 1

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Hello Inclub readers, welcome to the Pretty Privilege series. In this series, I am going to break down “pretty privilege” through my experiences and lens as a young black woman. This series is inspired by many female content creators on social media. I want to give a personal shoutout to Oh! Stephco for reviving this […]

Ten Things to Do While Waiting on Mr. Right


If you’re single, fuhgeddaboudit. There’s literally a list of things you could be checking off your list before getting booed up again. Here are 10 things you should be doing while single, besides waiting for Mr. Right. Get your mind right—whether it be filling it spiritually [seek the Kingdom and God and everything else will […]

How to Date When You Struggle with Anxiety

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Anxiety is a buzzkill and when it comes to dating and romance, anxiety can get in the way from finding your soulmate. Take it from me. 10 years ago, I was diagnosed with both anxiety and OCD, it was a confusing time for me and my family.    It was like my mental illness deterred […]

First Date Ideas: COVID-19 Friendly


Going on a first date is already nerve-racking enough, but now with the extra worry and stress surrounding the COVID-19 pandemic, it makes dating more of an obstacle course. On top of the ordinary things to worry about — like, will you guys hit it off, or what should you wear, now you also have […]

Arranged Marriages vs. Modern Marriages

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For ages arranged marriages have been the norm for many different cultures. Americans seem to lean mostly towards the traditional marry for love union. The saying goes something like “what goes around comes back around.” What would you choose, arranged or modern marriage? Arranged Marriages have had a make-over within society. They are all dressed […]

How to Deal With Rejection The Right Way

How to Deal With Rejection The Right Way

Have you ever noticed how being turned down stops some people from trying again, while others bounce back from rejection stronger than before? Everyone experiences some sort of rejection, but mentally strong people use that pain to grow stronger and become better. If you were excluded from a social engagement, or you were passed up […]

7 First Date Rules to Follow for Lasting Romance


When it comes to first date rules, it’s all about trying to make a good first impression. Not because you have anything to prove, but because first dates can make or break a potential relationship. Dating coaches will tell you what to say, wear, and behave on a first date, in order to snag the […]

5 Love Lessons From Jada and Will Smith’s ‘Red Table Talk’


Growing up, my parents always told me that the key to a lasting relationship is friendship. Have I always been successful following this piece of advice? No. Do I still value my parents’ words of wisdom? Absolutely! Last week, Will and Jada Pinkett-Smith sat down for a Red Table Talk where Jada elaborated on her […]

Celebrities who met their love through a friend


Prince Harry and Meghan Markle From their first TV interview, the world had hope that royal love could be born out a blind date, as Price Harry and fiancé Megan Markle revealed that their relationship was born out of a totally blind set-up by a mutual friend. “It was definitely a set-up,” Markle said in the interview. […]